December 31st -- New Year's Eve
The time has sadly, but understandably come for this holiday season blog to end. I hope all of you who have been following along have enjoyed my first blog and that it helped you to find joy in your own traditions this Christmas season!
Although this is the end of the Christmas season, it is a time for new beginnings. As we enter into the new year I am hoping and praying for the world to be a more loving, understanding, objective, open-minded and peaceful place. I am hoping for a sense of inner peace for myself and for the strength to allow myself to slow down and live more in the moment and less focused on only the future. I hope and pray for more growth with my business in the coming year, and that the new year brings immense inspiration in my art practice. I hope all of you enter into this new year with a sense of purpose, of hope, and with love for anyone and everyone no matter what their surface appearance, gender, race, spiritual beliefs or where they are from. Here's to 2018 -- a year that I hope will bring more love and happiness to everyone.
December 30th -- Snow !
I love snow in moderation. I think it is the most beautiful thing to watch snow fall in fluffy piles from the warmth of being inside my home -- it is so peaceful and relaxing. However, I like snow if it's a few inches, not when it's several feet and makes traveling dangerous. I do believe, for myself, that it's not really winter or Christmas without snow. I'm sure winter and Christmas are beautiful and special without snow, but because I've always lived somewhere that experiences every season, it's what I'm used to.
This year, I'm really into snow because the snow we've had in this part of Jersey has been minimal and beautiful. It snowed today even, for the second time this December! Snow is a pretty controversial subject in my house, as my dad refers to it as "white stuff from hell," but we definitely don't all see it this way, and I don't believe that he even feels that way all the time. Snow will always be something I associate with the Christmas season, and I think they say it best in White Christmas -- "snow, it won't be long before we'll all be there with snow, snow, I want to wash my hands, my face and hair with snow."
December 29th -- Hot cocoa + cookies !
Tis' the season for a lot of things but especially hot cocoa and cookies!!! I've posted more in depth on a past day about all the different kinds of cookies I baked as a kid with my mom and grandmother and the cookies my boyfriend and I enjoy baking together now. I have yet to discuss my passion for hot cocoa though, so buckle up!
I love all things chocolate (except white chocolate because it's not real chocolate) so it's no surprise that I freaking love hot chocolate! I love all kinds whether it's from Dunkin Donuts, Ghirardelli, Swiss Miss, you name it I most likely love it. I personally prefer my hot cocoa to be made with hot water (I can't have dairy, but it also just doesn't taste the same with dairy-free milks) -- I also love to throw a little dash of cinnamon in too as a little extra holiday pazaz. Of course, around the holidays you can't only have hot cocoa without some kind of tasty treat -- my go to is always cookies. Baking and decorating cookies is fun, but let's be honest here -- eating them is the best part.
All in all when it's cold as heck outside all you really want to do is nest inside, and what better way to do it than with a big mug of hot cocoa and a couple of delicious cookies.
December 28th -- Driving around looking at the Christmas lights on houses
Some of you may already know this since I made a pattern inspired by this -- one of my favorite things to do during the Christmas season is drive around looking at all the Christmas lights on houses. Of course, it helps to this once it gets pretty dark which in winter is anytime after 4:30pm where I live. This used to be a tradition that my parents, siblings, and I would have growing up, but as we all grew older we kind of grew apart from doing this each year. When my boyfriend Antonio and I got together -- we both really love Christmas -- we started this tradition back up.
This tradition is so special to me because it helps me to feel like a little kid again, and I am also spending quality time with my favorite person. We drive around as often as we can, several times throughout the Christmas season each year -- sometimes drinking peppermint coffee or hot chocolate -- always listening to Christmas music -- and just enjoy the different decorations and lights that people put around their homes. It's so fun for us to do this even though it's such a small and simple thing. It's some of my favorite Christmas memories and it really helps me to slow down and enjoy the little moments of joy that the Christmas season has to offer.
December 27th -- Our special stocking tradition
Every year growing up I always found an orange and a quarter in the toe of my Christmas stocking. This probably sounds crazy and random to those of you who don't know the meaning behind it, but I'll get into that in a bit. This is a family tradition that my mother grew up with as a child as well -- a tradition that will also continue in the future when my siblings and I have children. Of course we always received other small treats and gifts in our stockings as well, but these two things made an appearance every year.
My family started doing this because of the origin story of the Christmas stocking. For those who don't know here it is:
"St. Nicholas, who was a rich bishop, born in the 4th century of present-day Turkey, once learned of a shopkeeper who was poor and unable to find husbands for his three daughters as they didn’t have money for dowries. The man worried what would become of his very beautiful daughters after he died. However, the man was very proud and would not accept money or charity from others. Yet, St. Nicholas still wished to help. He, therefore, decided to help in secret. One day he secretly tossed three bags of gold down the chimney while they slept. Each bag (or ball) of gold happened to land in each of the daughters’ stockings which fortuitously were hung by the fire to dry. The family awoke the next morning and found the gold and were, of course, overjoyed at the generosity they had received anonymously. The daughters were then able to pay their dowries and wed, ensuring their father peace knowing they would be taken care of after he was no longer around." (from whatsupfagans.com)
For generations my family has continued on this tradition to bring us all back to the classic ways and true meanings of Christmas. We always receive an orange, because some stories say the gold melted into a ball from being hung over the fire, and a coin to remind us of the gold. I love this tradition because it helps -- especially children -- to understand how to give selflessly, that giving is more important than receiving, and that it's the thought behind a gift that matters most.
December 26th -- The joy you get from giving/receiving the most thoughtful gift
I know Christmas was yesterday, but Christmas season is not over yet! This blog is going throughout all of December, so buckle up for a few more days of posts!
One of my favorite things about Christmas is picking out gifts for people. I seriously love gift giving -- I will not get something for someone unless it makes sense for them personally. Every gift I give has to have a little bit of the persons personality in it. I am going to share with you about my two favorite gifts I gave this year, with the most meaningful reactions. First up is the gift I gave to my boyfriend. This served both as a Christmas gift and anniversary gift as we are approaching our 4 year mark in the beginning of January. I gave him a The Night Sky print customized to show the night sky from his house on the day he asked me to be his girlfriend just about 4 years ago. He is a science man and has always love space, so this was the perfect combination of something he loves with something sentimental. We've been talking about painting a wall of his room like a galaxy for years, but have never gotten around to it, so for now this will be a way for him to still have what he's been wanting for so long. He had never heard of something like this, which made the reaction all the more exciting, which truly made my heart so happy to see him so happy.
Next up are my parents. This year my siblings, our significant other's and I decided to all go in on really awesome Rockettes tickets for my parents. They always spend their time putting everyone before themselves and don't usually have a lot of time to just spend alone together. My dad hasn't seen the Rockettes since he was a kid and my mom hasn't in many, many years either. They both absolutely love Christmas and have always wanted to see the Rockettes together, so this year is the year! They're actually in New York right now about to see the 2pm show. We all knew they would love and appreciate this gift, and even though we know how emotional my mom is, we were not expecting her to burst into tears because she loved it so much. My dad was so happy too, you could just see it in his smile. This was one of the most meaningful gifts I have ever given because of the immense joy it brought to my parents -- two people who always give so selflessly. There is no better feeling than seeing the people you care about most in the world so genuinely happy.
December 25th -- Christmas Day
The time has finally come!!!!!! The most joyful day of the year! Everything has been leading up to this, and I sure do have a lot of traditions from my family to share with you. Let's start with Christmas morning -- my parents always prepare a big celebratory breakfast which included my absolute favorite people in the world. This year Christmas morning consisted of my parent, sister and brother-in-law, brother and his girlfriend, two friends who are more like family, my boyfriend and myself. To put it simply, there's a bunch of us in our kitchen enjoying each other's company and having amazing food and peppermint coffee. I should mention that as soon as everyone woke up my dad started blasting Christmas music. After breakfast we all open presents and they are always so meaningful and perfect for each person -- my family really knows how to give with a personal touch. After we open our presents, the dogs get to open presents too, before we all get ready to head out to our massive family celebration.
This year we went to my cousins house on my mom's side and let me tell you -- there are a lot of us. I always love getting together with my whole family Christmas day because it is such a happy time, plus I've already talked about how amazing the food always is when my family gets together and Christmas is no exception. This year, instead of ham as the meat we had steak tips and oh wow were they freaking amazing! I can't even go into how insanely good dessert was because I don't know if I could put it into words -- let's just say I had a hard time deciding what I would have without stuffing myself into a food coma.
At the end of the day, there is no better way to spend Christmas other than with the people you love. Even with a bunch of terrible things and all the hatred in the world, Christmas is one day where we get to put all the struggles on hold and just enjoy each other's company and catch up and laugh and eat together. I've mentioned that my family is extremely close, and I wouldn't give that up for anything. I hope that no matter where you are and whatever you celebrate, you had a relaxing and joyful day full of love, peace, and great food.
December 24th -- Midnight Mass
I can't believe it's already Christmas Eve!!!!! I'm excited to say the least. There are a few small traditions my family always has on Christmas Eve: eating Chinese food for dinner, wrapping gifts, and going to midnight mass. We started integrating midnight mass into Christmas Eve when I was a freshman in highschool and I honestly can't believe that was my first year ever going.
Midnight mass is special because it's a different arrangement than all the other Christmas masses for the season. The mass at midnight begins the full story of Jesus' birth. At the beginning of every midnight mass the half hour before is spent listening to the churches choir sing classic Christmas carols. Once mass is ready to begin, the Knights of Columbus process up the aisle with instrumentalists playing trumpets and horns while the choir sings. A moment later the priests, deacons, eucharistic ministers, lector, and altar servers process up the aisle with our Monsignor holding a baby Jesus made of olive wood. Instead of going right to the altar, Monsignor lays baby Jesus in the rest of the nativity scene as the entire church sings Silent Night. I don't know if this same thing happens at every church for midnight mass, but this is my favorite part. It's so special and peaceful to watch the head of our church lay Jesus in the nativity scene with the entire church congregation uniting to sing the beautiful song that is Silent Night.
Tonight was a special midnight mass for me because I felt my grandpa's spirit very strongly there with my parents and I tonight. I felt an extra sense a peacefulness and calmness that I have so desperately needed lately -- maybe that sense of peace is his gift to me this holiday season.
December 22nd -- Sneaking a peek at the tree in the middle of the night
For some reason, for as long as I can remember I have always loved waking up in the middle of the night to go downstairs and look at the Christmas tree by myself. I used to wake up a naturally in the middle of the night when I was younger, but as I've gotten older I sometimes will actually set an alarm to wake me up around 4/5am to get my tree time. This year I actually woke up naturally in the middle of the night last night, I was so excited! Of course I woke up because I needed to use the bathroom, but it turned into something much better.
There is something so beautiful about being surrounded by silence for once, by myself, staring at a beautifully lit tree decorated with memories. It is one of my absolute favorite little things to do every year and I know that it's a tradition I will carry with me throughout my life. In all the hustle and bustle and chaos of the season, this is my own little moment of peace, serenity, and happiness.